firstly, I know you just want the best for your children. you want them to have the easy, perfect life that you always wished for. let's face it, that never happens for anyone. let your kids stick out, let them be who they really are. hiding any part of themselves: sexuality, gender, or otherwise is more pain to them than letting the world know could even get others to hurt them. feeling like there's no way to express the feelings that one does feel ultimately leads to depression, rebellion, or some other sort of mental disorder. possibly even a mix. yes, you may think you have your child's best interests in mind when you tell them not to do something, or disapprove of something they are so proud of, to save them from society's opinion on the matter. although, you may not realize the fact that there is more harm being done when you dash your child's dreams or suppress thoughts and feelings that need to be brought out. eventually, for holding them back in their development, your children will start to resent or even hate you a little more each time the topic is brought up. there may not be a way to repair the damage left in their image of you once you let it get to this point. if you really want a good relationship with your children, the best bet is to just let them be who they must, support them in their journey, wherever it might take them, and try to keep an open mind to whatever they feel they must tell you. if could become the basis of your relationship with them.
if it weren't for parents' influence and society today, the world would be a much happier place. many a person would be able to just be instead of being forced to conform to the rules of society and become another drone, clone meant for the use of just populating the earth with brainlessness. there would be the freedom for EVERYONE to just choose what they want and need out of life. how much simpler would that be??
who even decides what 'society' thinks of issues anyways?? who is in charge of all this?? how do we know there is even a good reason to follow? what if it is all up to hitler, who has hidden away to make us think he's gone, but really he's subconsciously ruling the world by forcing people to think a certain way. it's all in the fucking mustache.
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